Bo Derek, 66, has shared her reasons for deciding not to become a parent. The actress, best known for her role in “Bolero,” revealed that her unusual and chaotic upbringing made it hard for her to envision herself as a mother. She explained that children deserve the chance to grow up with two dedicated parents, something she felt her own life lacked the stability to provide. “There were times I wouldn’t even have a dog because my life was so hectic, let alone a child,” Derek admitted.
What may surprise some is that Derek never intended to become an actress. She had pictured a laid-back future, perhaps working at a surf shop. However, when the opportunity to enter show business came her way, she found the prospect unsettling. Despite attractive offers, she initially turned down acting roles.
Derek was married to actor John Derek from 1976 until his death in 1998. Since 2002, she has been in a committed relationship with actor John Corbett. The couple has shown no rush to start a family, and Derek has acknowledged that building a young family hasn’t been a priority in their lives. In an interview with Fox News, she admitted that, while starting a family is a significant decision, it simply hasn’t been part of their journey yet.
Despite this, Derek did mention the idea of adoption in later years, suggesting it as a possible option for couples considering having children. She believes adoption is a wonderful path for those who want to expand their family.
When asked about her relationship with Corbett, Derek described it as wonderful, with their bond rooted in “comfort.” She spoke fondly of Corbett’s energy and how he can always make her laugh. Derek believes that their connection remains strong and that they are slowly finding their place together as a couple.
Bo Derek’s decision to forgo motherhood stemmed from her desire for an unconventional but stable life. Although she believes children thrive best with two committed parents, she acknowledges that her personal circumstances haven’t allowed her to provide the consistent environment she feels is necessary for raising children. Now, with their relationship well-established, Derek and John Corbett can continue enjoying their life together and may consider adoption down the road.